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New York Divorce Blog

New York Divorce News & Information

  • 2-Dec-2022

    Did You Know Psychology Plays a Big Role in Divorce?

    With more than 35 years of experience as a psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator, I heard the cries of many spouses and mastered techniques using psychology and sound legal strategy to get couples thoughtfully and successfully through ...
  • 30-Nov-2022

    5 Reasons Millennials Are Saying "I Do" to Prenuptial Agreements!

    For many savvy couples these days, especially millennials, careful planning to have the best possible financially protected future together is an important consideration. With more than 35 years of experience as a psychologically trained divorce ...
  • 28-Nov-2022

    Did You Get Served for Divorce Over the Thanksgiving Holiday?

    If you got served over the Thanksgiving weekend for a divorce, I can help! One of my clients was served for divorce last year over the Thanksgiving holiday. He couldn’t believe it. He called me on Saturday of the holiday weekend and told me he ...
  • 25-Nov-2022

    Do You Suspect Your Spouse Is Hiding Assets?

    If you think your spouse is hiding assets, listen to your gut and do something about it. As a divorce attorney and psychologically trained mediator with more than 35 years of experience, I advise couples getting married to pay attention to the family ...
  • 23-Nov-2022

    IT Specialists to Social Media Influencers Love Attorney Brenner's Divorce Mediation!

    Since I have been practicing over 35 years as a psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator, I have had an impressive array of clients from IT specialists to social media influencers. Regardless of a client’s position in life, the 3 ...
  • 21-Nov-2022

    Need Help Divorcing a Verbally Abusive Spouse?

    You are useless! So stupid! “Why did I ever marry you? You are always making me mad! It’s your fault I’m yelling at you! Sound familiar? If your answer is “Yes”, you are being verbally abused! But you don’t have to ...
  • 18-Nov-2022

    3 Ways to Prepare for Your Divorce Right Now!

    Although we are all wondering when this financial crisis will subside, some of us are using this valuable time to prepare for life moving forward. Many couples living in bad marriages have had enough and are ready to move on with their lives. Now is ...
  • 16-Nov-2022

    Do You Need Help With Your Uncontested Divorce in New York?

    As a medically trained divorce attorney and mediator for more than 35 years, I have guided many spouses through the divorce process. New York law allows couples to obtain an uncontested divorce when both parties agree to the divorce as well as have ...
  • 14-Nov-2022

    Ready to Divorce Your Psychopathic Spouse?

    It won’t be easy! You are going to need psychological strength and legal know-how. I’m her to help! As a psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator, I meet all kinds of people in tumultuous marriages suffering from various ...
  • 11-Nov-2022

    My Psychological Approach to Divorce Will Change Your Life!

    With more than 35 years of experience as a divorce attorney and psychologically–trained mediator, I am a strong advocate for divorce with dignity. I have mastered techniques using psychology and sound legal strategy to get couples through the ...
  • 9-Nov-2022

    Is Your Marriage at Risk? A Postnuptial Agreement Could Help!

    Weddings and the holiday season are upon us and many couples will be blissfully walking down the aisle with love in their hearts and visions of forever! But as a divorce attorney/mediator for more than 35 years, sadly I know half of these marriages ...
  • 7-Nov-2022

    Make Sure Your Separation Agreement Includes Everything You Want Before You Sign It!

    Yes, make sure you are getting everything you want and deserve! It’s an important part of the divorce process! Don’t take signing your agreement lightly. Many spouses expect divorce to be an ongoing battle, but as a seasoned New York ...
  • 4-Nov-2022

    Do You Want a Peaceful Approach to Child Custody? I've Got One For You!

    As a seasoned New York family law attorney, mediator, and psychologically trained medical professional, I regularly advise mothers and fathers going through divorce who are considering a custody action. For those couples who can agree on custody, I ...
  • 3-Nov-2022

    Divorce Story

    As a divorce attorney, and psychologically-trained mediator, I hear all kinds of diverse divorce stories. I have decided to share some of these stories monthly with you. Naturally, I will change the names and some of the details to protect the ...
  • 31-Oct-2022

    8 Signs You Are Being Controlled By Your Spouse!

    During a recent phone consultation I spoke with a woman in her 30s who tearfully explained she had no control over her life. Her husband had multiple separate accounts and wanted to know all about her finances, but would share no information about ...
  • 28-Oct-2022

    How Unromantic! My Fiance Wants a Prenuptial Agreement! Should I Still Marry Him?

    This was a text I received from Joanne. Her text continued and said,” I’m designing my wedding dress, selecting flowers, and tasting cakes for the happiest day of my life! Why is my fiance talking to me about a prenuptial agreement? When ...
  • 26-Oct-2022

    Can't Locate Your Spouse to Divorce? Let Me Help You!

    If you want a divorce but you and your spouse have been estranged and you don’t know how to locate your spouse, Divorce by Publication is your answer! In New York the legal system requires that you make every effort to find your spouse in order ...
  • 24-Oct-2022

    Let Me Help You Start the Dreaded Divorce Conversation!

    Ken and Andrea have been married for 16 years. They have an 8-year-old daughter on the autism spectrum. Ken is a tech specialist, and Andrea works part-time in an art gallery. For the past 3 years, Ken has been concerned that his wife has been in ...
  • 21-Oct-2022

    Divorcing? Children? Holidays? Oh, No!

    When you are a divorce attorney, inevitably holiday time for clients and their families is turbulent and for some, very chaotic and unhappy. Who do the children trick or treat with? Where do the children spend Thanksgiving? Who gets Hanukkah? What ...
  • 19-Oct-2022

    Avoid These High Net Worth Divorce Mistakes!

    High Net Worth Divorce cases can be complicated and highly emotional. The proceedings (litigation) or negotiations (mediation) can be exhausting as both parties wrestle for what they feel they deserve. As a skilled high net worth ...
  • 17-Oct-2022

    Divorcing? Should You Litigate or Mediate?

    When considering divorce, clients are usually familiar with going to court and fighting. More and more couples are learning there are effective, peaceful options. Some spouses want to fight but others don’t. Having a choice is truly a gift. ...
  • 14-Oct-2022

    Is a Personality Disorder Ruining Your Marriage?

    If you have answered yes, you are not alone. Many marriages are plagued by mental health issues and most divorce attorneys are not equipped to tackle the psychological strategy necessary to successfully dissolve this type of complex marriage. For ...
  • 12-Oct-2022

    Is It True Divorce Can Ruin Your Credit Score?

    If you are thinking about getting a divorce, your credit score may be the last thing on your mind, but you’d better think twice. Divorce can greatly impact your finances and credit history. Even the most amicable divorce can leave you in ...
  • 10-Oct-2022

    Thinking of Divorce? Don't Make These Mistakes!

    I have been a psychologically-trained divorce attorney and mediator for over 35 years. I have successfully helped thousands of spouses through the most difficult times of their lives. I have championed their steps whether they have mediated, ...
  • 7-Oct-2022

    Divorce Story

    As a divorce attorney, and psychologically-trained mediator, I hear all kinds of diverse divorce stories. I have decided to share some of these stories monthly with you. Naturally, I will change the names and some of the details to protect my ...
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