DIVORCE: With or
I have been educating clients and the public for many years on how divorce
doesn’t always have to be down and dirty. Divorce can be handled
in a variety of ways. I can help you explore your options. You can litigate,
negotiate or mediate!
Most divorce attorneys won’t tell you this. They will say, “Go
to court, spend money and fight!” Sometimes going to court and fighting
is the only solution. I too say, “when all else fails, fight!”
I always fight for my client’s rights regardless of which path they
choose, but not before evaluating the couple’s psychological dynamics
and the law; not before trying to help them establish a productive means
of communication and formulating strategy; not before telling them what
to expect if they do go to court, helping them and their children create
some type of normalcy through a very difficult life experience, and not
before showing them how to keep their money in their pockets. My successful
divorce process is a people-based alternative! It embraces your relationship
dynamics, your personality traits, your situation, and includes psychology,
emotions, thoughts, behavior and the law. It is not a one-size-fits-all divorce!
My medical background with training in psychology/psychiatry and my legal
skills have given me the special tools to evaluate the dynamics of a marriage,
both legally and psychologically; and based upon those findings, I direct
couples towards the best solution for them. Even when couples are fighting
and think they can’t talk to each other; it is possible to create
the opportunity for each of them to be heard and supported both legally
and psychologically. During this process a couple will explore all the
options, be better informed, and know that they have choices.
Divorce under the best of circumstances is never easy. But the path you
choose can be less painful, less expensive, and faster so you can both
move on with your lives.
Remember, if you are thinking about divorcing, it doesn’t have to
be a nightmare. Don’t overlook your options. Don’t let attorneys
tell you there are none!
Please call me if you would like to learn more! 212.734.1551.