GET YOUR “FREE” DIVORCE PERSONALITY QUIZ!!!!
Head (Legal Strategy) + Heart (Emotions)
“Unlike any other Divorce Attorney”
Lois M. Brenner, Esq., PA-C, is a renowned New York Divorce Attorney, an
accredited Divorce Mediator and psychologically-trained medical professional
with over 35 years' experience. Lois Brenner’s “new divorce
technique” addresses both the head (legal strategy), and heart (emotions)
of the divorce process. Her ground-breaking method of marrying legal strategy
and psychology saves her clients time, money and pain.
If you are curious about the “divorce personality” of your
marriage take the quiz below.
You may be surprised at what you will discover about your spouse!
For those of you who would like to receive the Divorce Personality Quiz,
send an email requesting the Quiz to lb@divorcelawyerny.com. We will then email you your very own Quiz.
Once you have answered the Quiz send it back to us at the above email and
receive a Free In Office Consultation
through the month of March to discuss the results and to learn how Lois
can help you successfully and painlessly navigate your divorce!!
Here’s a sample:
Divorce Personality Quiz!
My Spouse:
- Is deceitful, and uses aliases, lies, or cons people to get what is wanted
Yes___No___
- Makes desperate attempts to avoid abandonment
Yes___No___
- Requires excessive advice and reassurance in order to make everyday decisions
Yes___No___
- Mood is dejected, gloomy, and joyless
Yes___No___
- Exaggerates self-importance in a grandiose
Yes___No___
- Loses the main point of an activity by focusing excessively on details.
Yes___No___
- Suspects, without adequate justification, that others are trying to mistreat,
deceive, or take advantage of him/her
Yes___ No___
- Passively fails to complete both social and job-related tasks after directly
or indirectly pledging to complete them (e.g. "forgets" to water
someone's plants as promised, which subsequently die)
Yes___No___
- Puts me down, prevents discussions, gives orders
Yes___ No___
My spouse:
- Is irresponsible with regard to work, financial, and family obligations
Yes___ No___
- Has unstable and intense relationships, usually involving alternately
Yes___No___
- Overly hesitant to express disagreement for fear of losing support or approval of others
Yes___No___
4. Is self-derogatory
Yes___ No___
- Believes only special, high-status individuals can understand his/her unique
thoughts, talents, and/or problems
Yes___No___
- Has difficulty throwing out worn-out or worthless items
Yes___No___
- Finds hidden, degrading messages in others' innocent comments
Yes__ No___
- Criticizes and scorns authority in an unreasonable and self-defeating manner
Yes___No___
- Blames me, accuses and criticizes me
Yes___No___
My spouse:
- Lacks remorse, as shown by indifference to (or rationalizing of) harm he/she
has caused
Yes___ No___
- Has highly unstable moods (e.g. gets depressed, irritable, or anxious for
brief periods)
Yes___ No___
- Makes an inordinate effort to obtain nurturance or support from other (e.g.
volunteers to do unpleasant tasks that no one would want to do)
Yes___ No___
- Frequently worries, frets and sleeps a lot
Yes___ No___
- Needs excessive admiration
Yes___ No___
- Is hesitant to delegate tasks or work unless others will submit to his/her
exact way of doing things
Yes___ No___
- Doggedly holds grudges against others who insulted or slighted him/her
Yes___ No___
- Makes frequent, exaggerated complaints about his/her personal misfortune
Yes___ No___
- Is manipulative and controlling
Yes___ No___
My spouse:
- Has a history of antisocial behaviors (rule breaking, lying, physical aggression,
disrespect for others and property, substance abuse, etc.) since adolescence
Yes___ No___
- Is easily provoked to anger or rage
Yes___ No___
- Desperately seeks someone to take care of him/her as soon as a nurturing
relationship ends
Yes___ No___
- Tends to be highly pessimistic and complaintive
Yes___ No___
- Has an air of entitlement, expecting special treatment from others
Yes___ No___
- Is rigid and stubborn
Yes___ No___
- Repeatedly suspects, without evidence, that his/her spouse or partner has
been unfaithful
Yes___ No___
- Frequently or constantly complains about his/her woes
Yes___ No___
- Threatens and calls you names
Yes___ No___
Don’t forget to call to schedule your
free in office consultation!!
Call 212.734.1551
I look forward to helping you!
Lois