Blog Posts in 2021

• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 15-Oct-2021

  My Divorce Dont's!

  As a divorce attorney/mediator for over thirty-five years, I’ve seen many spouses make some bad divorce mistakes. Most of the time decisions fueled by anger will not be in your best interest. Please don’t do it! I know you’re angry, ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 13-Oct-2021

  What You Need to Know About Divorce!

  As a divorce attorney/mediator I get lots of questions about divorce. If you are thinking of going through a divorce, here is some information that will help you. Who can file for divorce in the State of New York? Any legally married person who meets ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 11-Oct-2021

  If I Am Mediating my Divorce Do I need an Attorney?

  As a psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator, I am uniquely skilled as both an attorney and a mediator. When I am wearing my mediator hat and guiding a couple in the mediation process, I sometimes suggest spouses consult with an ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 8-Oct-2021

  Is It Time to Divorce Your Controlling Spouse?

  During a recent phone consultation, I spoke with a woman in her late 30’s who tearfully explained she was married to an abusive man. Her husband had taken total control of her life and she needed help. She further explained he was reading her ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 6-Oct-2021

  Divorce Story

  As a divorce attorney and psychologically trained mediator, I hear all kinds of diverse divorce stories. I have decided to share some of these stories monthly with you. Naturally, I will change the names and some of the details to protect my ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 4-Oct-2021

  Do You Need Help Getting Out of a Verbally Abusive Marriage?

  “You are always late, now you have made me mad! You’re stupid! You are useless! Why did I ever marry you? Sound familiar? Yes, you are being verbally abused! But you don’t have to take it anymore! Many people who call for a ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 1-Oct-2021

  Need Help With Your High Net Worth Divorce?

  As a New York divorce lawyer for more than 35 years, I have handled many financially complex, high net worth, and celebrity divorces. Let’s face it, divorce is never easy, but divorces involving large amounts of money, property, and other ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 29-Sep-2021

  Tips for Talking to Your Spouse About Divorce!

  Peter and Angela have been married for 10 years. They have a 6-year-old son with anger issues. Peter is a pilot, and Angela is a jewelry designer. For the past year, Angela has been concerned that her husband has been in denial about their ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 27-Sep-2021

  Thinking of Divorce? Don't Move Out!

  As a divorce attorney and mediator for over 35 years, I tell clients when thinking of divorce to never to leave their home. Making this move can work against you when divorcing if not properly strategized. I often hear from clients that once divorce ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 24-Sep-2021

  What Not to Do if You Want Custody of Your Children

  Getting custody of your children when divorcing can be a big challenge. As a child custody specialist, I can guide you successfully through the process! Most courts prefer a shared or joint custody arrangement. When a parent wants sole custody, I ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 20-Sep-2021

  Divorcing? Don't Forget to Get Your Estate in Order!

  Divorce is scary, unpleasant, and for some, painful. It’s an extremely difficult time emotionally for the entire family. I work with divorcing couples all the time who share their sadness, frustration, and unhappiness with me. Divorce can be a ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 17-Sep-2021

  Divorcing? Did You Know You Don't Have to Go to Court?

  Divorcing? You can save money, time, and aggravation, and you don’t have to fight and go to court! As a highly skilled divorce attorney and psychologically trained mediator, I can tell you there is a better, healthier solution. It’s ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 15-Sep-2021

  What's Your Marriage "Money Style?"

  Money for most of us is an emotionally charged topic. That’s why few of us, and few couples, like to talk about it. When couples come to see me and are considering a divorce, money can actually be, yes, even more than infidelity, what is ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 13-Sep-2021

  Are You Experiencing Divorce Anxiety?

  Are you thinking about divorcing but afraid to take the first step? Is the thought of getting a divorce keeping you up at night? Do you get heart palpitations every time you start googling divorce attorneys? Yes, divorce anxiety is a real thing. As a ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 10-Sep-2021

  What Are the Grounds for Divorce in New York?

  As a divorce attorney/mediator for over 35 years, I am often asked during a consultation about the grounds for divorce in New York. There are seven grounds for divorce. Irretrievable breakdown was added in 2010 as a legal reason – making it ...

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