For over 35 years I have successfully served the NYC area as a psychologically-trained
divorce attorney and mediator.
Making the painful decision to leave your marriage is the biggest and hardest
decision you may ever make.
You cannot make this decision lightly.
Once you have decided to divorce, the next important decision to make is
how to get divorced.
Since this is your divorce, how you divorce is your decision! So you will
want to choose wisely!
Ask yourself some important questions:
- How much control do you want to have over your divorce?
- What is your dynamic with your spouse?
- To what degree can you and your spouse work together?
- Are you approaching your divorce with war or peace in mind?
- Does cost and time matter to you?
- How much are you willing to fight or does negotiation and compromise appeal to you?
- How important is it to put your child’s needs and family first?
- Are two lawyers really necessary or can one great advocate help you both
After witnessing the pain of many spouses day after day fighting in the
court system, I decided to develop a unique psychologically-infused divorce
mediation process to address divorce in a more humane and civil way. My
method addresses both the emotional and legal intricacies of divorce.
I say to couples, “Why fight when you can discuss, negotiate, and
participate in a thoughtful and peaceful divorce process?”
Mediation offers a more amicable, less painful, less expensive approach
to divorce. With my unique mediation process, everyone is a winner! There
are no losers! You are in the driver’s seat.
Mediation is a negotiated process between divorcing spouses on the important
issues like: finances, property division, spousal and child support, custody
As the divorce mediator, my role is to keep you talking, on track, and
to make sure negotiations are reasonable and to offer creative suggestions
when you hit a roadblock.
The focus of mediation is for you to control your own divorce. Spouses
have the opportunity to discuss their personal needs and priorities and
to arrive together at an agreement that is fair to both of them.
Another very important and appealing aspect of the mediation process is
time and cost. Most divorce mediation cases can be resolved in months
instead of years, and can cost thousands instead of tens of thousands
When spouses are considering separation or divorce, even if they are both
angry and having trouble communicating, I try to introduce them to divorce
mediation first because I know how effective and family friendly this
path can be.
When considering divorce, don’t consider only the traditional litigation
path. Take the time to educate yourself about mediation and its many magical
benefits. You’ll be glad you did!
Remember, making the painful decision to leave your marriage is the biggest
and hardest decision you may ever make.
Why don’t you give mediation a try?
I am offering Free 1 hour consultations so you can learn more about mediation.
Become enlightened and encouraged by this powerful alternative.
FREE 1 HOUR CONSULTATIONS are still available virtually.
I look forward to speaking with you!
Call New York Divorce Lawyer Lois Brenner now to book your Free 1 Hour