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The 3 P's of Divorce Mediation! Positive, Productive & Peaceful


For over 35 years I have served the NYC area as a psychologically-trained divorce attorney and mediator.

After witnessing the pain of many couples day after day, I decided to develop a unique mediation process to address divorce in a more humane and civil way.

My approach? Positive, Productive & Peaceful!

Why fight when you can discuss, negotiate, and participate in a thoughtful and peaceful divorce process?

Mediation offers a more humane, less painful way to approach divorce. With mediation there are no losers; everyone is a winner.

Mediation is a negotiated process between divorcing spouses on the important issues: finances, support, property and children. As the divorce mediator, my role is to keep you talking, on track and to make sure negotiations are reasonable and to offer creative suggestions when you hit a roadblock.

The focus of mediation is for you to control your own divorce. Spouses have the opportunity to discuss their personal needs and priorities and to arrive together at an agreement that is fair to both of them.

Another appealing aspect of the mediation process is time and cost. Most divorce mediation cases can be resolved in months instead of years, and can cost thousands instead of tens of thousands of dollars. This process can take months instead of years.

When spouses are considering separation or divorce, I try to introduce them to the 3 P’s of Divorce Mediation. Even if you are both angry, I have found mediation to be a process that can work. Not all divorces can be resolved using mediation, and sometimes litigation is necessary. But I always say, “consider mediation first!”

As a divorce lawyer, and psychologically-trained mediator, I can help you while you are divorcing to put your well-being and family first.

Here is what is important to most spouses in any divorce process:

  1. to be heard
  2. to be informed;
  3. to be understood;
  4. emotionally supported;
  5. have things done in a timely manner;
  6. get a fair settlement;
  7. avoid court;
  8. not have to spend their life savings on lawyers.

If you trust me with your divorce, I will support you, and do the above!

Working with me your mediation process will be Postitive, Productive & Peaceful!

Why don’t you give mediation a try?

I am offering Free 1 hour consultations. Why not join me to learn more…

During the ongoing COVID-19 Pandemic all our FREE I HOUR CONSULTATIONS are conveniently conducted virtually to reduce risk and maintain safety.

I look forward to sharing all the impressive benefits of mediation with you!

Stay Healthy & Stay Safe!

Warm regards,


Call New York Divorce Lawyer Lois Brenner now to book your Free 1 Hour Consultation.


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