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10 Signs You May Be Married to a Narcissist!


Is it impossible to live up to the standards of your spouse? Are their demands intense? Do they remind you constantly that you are not as smart or as engaging as they are? You are probably married to a narcissist!

Narcissism is a personality disorder.

Personality disorders are conditions in which people have traits that cause them to feel and behave in socially distressing ways. This limits their ability to have healthy relationships.

Narcissists have an inflated view of themselves.

They can be arrogant, grandiose, entitled, and conceited. Narcissists thrive in relationships that focus on them, fulfilling only their needs and interest.

Marriages can be a delicate balancing act for many couples as they try to juggle family and careers. Add a personality disorder to the mix and a marriage truly struggles to survive.

Here are 10 Signs You May Be Married to a Narcissist:

  1. Violates others personal boundaries;
  2. Conversation hoarder;
  3. Charming;
  4. Manipulates to get what they want;
  5. Holds grudges;
  6. Inflated view of self;
  7. It’s never their fault, its always someone else’s fault;
  8. Impatient;
  9. Feigns affection;
  10. Lacks empathy.

Being in a relationship with a narcissist can be confusing and painful. You feel ignored and dismissed. Your feelings, wants, and needs are never acknowledged. You don’t feel safe, cared for, or heard in your relationship. The pressure for you to be perfect, expected by the narcissist, can make you feel depressed, on edge, and frustrated. You are under constant pressure to say and do the right thing. Being married to a narcissist can be devastating.

If this sounds like you, and you need a way out of a narcissistic relationship, call me. As a psychologically-trained divorce attorney and mediator, I have the unique skills to guide you through a psychologically complicated divorce.

A narcissist is a toxic, high maintenance personality.

I am familiar with the traits of a narcissist and uniquely trained as both a medical professional and divorce attorney to help you successfully and safely divorce the narcissist in your life.

All our FREE 1 HOUR CONSULTATIONS are discreetlyand conveniently conducted virtually to reduce risk.

Stay healthy and safe!

Warm regards,


To rid your life of a narcissist Call New York Divorce Lawyer Lois Brenner now to book your free consultation.

Call 212.734.1551.