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My Best 2021 Divorce Advice!


Divorce is traditionally a painful and dreaded process, but it doesn’t have to be as painful as you think!

To help you with your 2021 divorce goals, I’m sharing my suggestions for protecting yourself, your family, and your finances.

As a psychologically-trained divorce attorney and mediator, I can help you pave a path to a happier, healthier life. My unique divorce process will give you comfort, strength, a successful legal strategy, and peace of mind during one of the most difficult times of your life.

So let’s get started right now with a few of my helpful divorce tips for 2021:

1. Consider alternatives.

Be open to a less aggressive path to divorce. Most divorce matters can be negotiated. Your life doesn’t have to look like a divorce court reality show. You can choose a less expensive, faster, more dignified process like mediation.

Mediation is normally less expensive (why give all your assets to attorneys?), less provocative, compassionate, more family friendly, and financially flexible!

2.Think strategically, not emotionally.

Once divorce is a consideration, don’t just react. Think, plan, and strategize. Select the professionals who will provide the divorce armor you will need and champion your wishes.

3. Don’t move out of the marital residence.

Never simply leave your home. Getting back in can be difficult. Stand your ground and don’t lose your leverage.

4. Don’t just take divorce advice from your friends!

They may have known someone who divorced or have been through divorce themselves, but that doesn’t mean they passed the bar and practice divorce law. Gladly accept their love and emotional support and leave the nuts and bolts of divorce to the pros.

5. Don’t use your children as pawns.

Your children are your greatest gift. Don’t sacrifice them in your battle. Children are meant to be treasured and protected by both their mom and dad.

So what are your 2021 divorce questions?

To discuss in more detail some of the tips I provided above, call me.

I promise to have some solid answers for you! I will provide you with successful, compassionate, and comprehensive legal advice to set you on the right path.

As a highly trained and experienced divorce attorney and mediator with a successful track record of over 35 years, I can help you!

During the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic all our FREE 1 HOUR CONSULTATIONS are conveniently conducted virtually to reduce risk.

I look forward to speaking with you.

Stay healthy and safe!

Warm regards,


Call New York divorce lawyer Lois Brenner to start your 2021 divorce process Now!!

2021 is a time for change! Don’t stay in an unhappy marriage!

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