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Since the Pandemic More and More Couples Are Choosing Mediation!


It’s time to harness the power to manage your own divorce with my groundbreaking psychologically-infused divorce mediation method that approaches divorce both with head (legal) and with heart (emotional).

The divorce industry is plagued with the motto “Fight! Fight! Fight!

The pandemic has taught couples when it comes to divorce, it is time for a welcome change.

As a psychologically trained divorce attorney, mediator and best-selling author, I use psychological training and legal prowess to identify personality issues impacting marriage and placing psychological roadblocks to divorce.

Over the last 35 years, drawing on my fundamental legal/psychological techniques, I have created a highly successful divorce mediation process that uniquely infuses psychology into divorce.

During our mediation sessions, I will give you the tools and the resources to strategically navigate your divorce with legal understanding, identifying psychological issues, addressing anger, and skillfully helping you choose a healthy path to ending your marriage.

We will discuss budgets, income, assets, property, a family business, spousal support, child support, life insurance, health insurance and in some cases addiction, mental health issues, cheating, your spouse’s hiding assets, and sadly, in other situations, abuse. We will discuss it all and together select a healthy path for you to divorce with sanity and dignity.

I will assist you in a peaceful process, help you make decisions together and arrive at an agreement that is fair to both. For people who have never experienced it, mediation is surprisingly and stunningly effective. It is quick, inexpensive, and not adversarial. It is a three-part process, consisting of the negotiations, the preparation of an agreement, and preparation and submission of the divorce documents to a judge for signature.

In the last decade, mediation has become the popular choice of many divorcing couples, especially millennials. In fact, during the pandemic, while the courts have been closed, couples have been calling and asking me a lot about mediation.

It was particularly difficult for disgruntled couples sheltering in place to continue in an already unhappy marriage. For some in abusive relationships, continuing to struggle in the marriage is no longer acceptable.

Following my methods, you will gain valuable legal knowledge, communicate, (perhaps for the first time with your spouse), be encouraged to listen and be guided to negotiate a divorce that is reflective of the harmonious and peaceful life you wish to create for yourself and your family.

Which path will you choose? Let me guide you!

During your free consultation, you will hear about my unique process which is being embraced now more than ever, especially since the pandemic started. It’s less expensive, saves time and is non-adversarial.

My mediation process is highly successful and has worked for many couples. Take a look at some of the reviews on my website and on Avvo to see how my mediation methods has helped thousands of couples!

Learning more about my unique psychologically-infused mediation process is only a phone call away!

Our FREE 1 HOUR CONSULTATIONS are very informative and conveniently conducted virtually to continue to reduce risk!

I look forward to speaking with you.

Stay healthy & safe!

Warm regards,

Call New York Divorce Attorney/Mediator Lois Brenner Now to schedule your FREE consultation!