When most people think of divorce, they picture emotional tension, never ending legal bills, and courtrooms. But a new trend is quietly emerging, one that reflects a growing desire to align our most personal decisions with our deepest values. Welcome to the world of Green Divorce, an approach for eco-conscious couples who want to divorce mindfully, sustainably, and without the emotional stress and waste of assets when litigating.
As a medically and psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator for over 35 years, I work with couples seeking not just a fair separation, but one that protects what they care about most: their children, mental health, and their finances.
What Is a Green Divorce?
A “green divorce” isn’t just about saving money or driving an electric car, it’s a deeper commitment to sustainable choices throughout the divorce process and beyond.
Here are some of the questions eco-conscious couples often face:
- How can we reduce the emotionaland financial waste of a bitter courtroom battle?
- Can we agree to co-own a family property?
- How do we split assets without discarding values we built our lives around?
Through mediation, these complex and deeply personal questions can be addressed with respect and creativity, something not found in a courtroom.
Why Mediation Works for Eco-Conscious Couples
Divorce litigation is not only costly and emotionally draining, it’s also very resource-intensive. Mediation offers a greener, cleaner alternative:
Less Paper, More Progress
Mediation minimizes paperwork and waste. I work electronically whenever possible and encourage digital file-sharing to reduce the environmental footprint.
Fewer Court Dates, Fewer Emissions
No endless costly drives to court. Most mediation sessions can be conducted via conference call or Zoom or in a single office reducing transportation costs and stress.
Customized Agreements
You’re not forced into a cookie-cutter legal judgment. Mediation allows us to craft unique solutions such as:
- Sharing ownership of property
- Planning sustainable parenting schedules with reduced travel
- Creating eco-responsible asset division, such as preserving assets, and donating unwanted items.
Emotional Sustainability
Green divorce is about preserving emotional energy as much as assets. My psychological training allows me to help clients de-escalate conflict and communicate more effectively during divorce.
Sustainable Lifestyle Choices After Divorce
Mediation is also a space to plan for your sustainable future. I’ve helped couples:
- Establish green parenting plans ( organic food, environmental education, minimal screen time)
- Continue joint eco-philanthropy
- Transition businesses or nonprofits ethically and efficiently
- Maintain ethical wills, legacy documents, and future planning aligned with their values
Through my unique mediation process, we focus on preserving what matters to you, your values, your voice, and your vision for the future.
If you and your spouse are committed to parting ways with dignity, mindfulness, while preserving assets and lower fees, mediation is not just a legal option, it’s the right financial and ethical choice.
If you’re considering divorce and want a compassionate, financially conscious approach to divorce, call me. I’ve helped hundreds of couples find peace, preserve their values and their assets, while avoiding costly courtroom chaos.
Call me today at (212) 734-1551 or to schedule your free and confidential consultation.
Remember, how you divorce matters to your mental health, family, future, and your finances.
Warm wishes,
Lois