Divorce is sad and complicated. But when significant assets, property, businesses, and investments are at stake, the process becomes even more complex.
High net worth divorces demand more than just legal knowledge. They require sharp negotiation skills, financial expertise, discretion, and psychological insight.
It’s important to hire an attorney/mediator who is a high net worth divorce strategist.
I am not only a seasoned divorce attorney and mediator with over 35 years of experience, but also a licensed medical professional with psychological training.
My rare combination of legal acumen and emotional intelligence makes me a strong advocate for high-net-worth spouses navigating the storm of divorce.
In my guide, you’ll discover why thoughtful, personalized strategies whether through litigation or mediation, can protect your wealth, well-being, and your future, which is essential to your high net worth divorce.
So What Makes a Divorce “High Net Worth?”
A high net worth divorce typically involves:
- Marital assets exceeding $1 million
- Multiple real estate properties (often including vacation homes or international assets)
- Complex investment portfolios
- Business ownership or partnerships
- Stock options, restricted shares, or RSUs
- Trusts, inheritance, and offshore accounts
- Significant retirement accounts and pensions
- Valuable collectibles (art, jewelry, vehicles)
Why High Net Worth Divorce Requires a Specialized Approach
With so much at stake, every decision in a high net worth divorce can have long-lasting financial and emotional consequences. You need an expert who can:
- Navigate asset valuation and forensic accounting
- Uncover hidden assets
- Advocate for equitable distribution
- Ensure prenuptial or postnuptial agreements are upheld or challenged appropriately
- Factor in tax implications for settlements
- Protect your privacy and reputation
Litigation or Mediation?
Litigation: When Court Is Necessary
Sometimes, despite your best efforts, a peaceful resolution is not possible. If your spouse is hiding assets, being unreasonable, or the situation is highly adversarial, litigation may be the only path.
- You need a fierce litigator with the knowledge and courtroom experience to protect your interests. A stealth team is imperative:
- Forensic accountants
- Business valuation experts
- Tax professionals
- Real estate appraisers
Mediation: The Private, Cost-Effective Solution
For high net worth individuals seeking a more private, amicable, and efficient process, mediation can be a powerful tool.
A trained mediator/attorney, like myself with a psychological edge offers a unique mediation method that is ideal for high net worth couples especially when privacy is paramount and both parties are open to compromise.
This mediation process:
- Prioritizes discretion
- Uses psychological insight to manage power imbalances
- Allows creative solutions not possible in court
- Minimizes public exposure and court involvement
- Often saves hundreds of thousands in legal fees
A comprehensive approach and diverse team of legal and financial professionals ensure every asset is properly addressed and you are getting the best deal and results.
Why Experience Matters in High Net Worth Divorce
I have worked with them all. Hedge fund managers, CEOs, physicians, entertainers, tech entrepreneurs, and wealthy spouses who never earned a paycheck but contributed in non-financial ways.
When working with high net worth individuals, I:
- Recognize financial manipulation and hidden asset tactics
- Understand complex compensation structures (like carried interest or executive bonuses)
- Protect inheritances and premarital wealth
- Craft parenting agreements that reflect a high-net-worth lifestyle
- Strategize to avoid unnecessary tax burdens
In a high net worth divorce every client has different priorities. Some want to protect their assets or a business. Others want to avoid publicity. Many want a fair parenting plan that reflects their children’s unique upbringing.
As a divorce attorney/ mediator for over 35 years, I tailor my divorce approach for the sophisticated client. My white-glove process is confidential and customized to fit your personal and financial goals.
If you are facing a high net worth divorce and would like to explore your options, call me. Schedule your free and confidential consultation right now by calling 212.734.1551.
Don’t trust your future to just any lawyer/mediator.
Let me guide you with strength, strategy, and insight. Whether you need an aggressive courtroom advocate or a skilled mediator who understands both the numbers and the emotions, I can help you get the best results.
I look forward to speaking with you.
Warm wishes,
Lois