If you’ve ever tried to reason with a narcissist, you’ve probably walked away scratching your head and questioning your own sanity. That’s no accident, narcissists thrive on manipulation, distortion, and control. So when it comes to divorcing one, you’re not just ending a marriage. You’re dismantling a psychological war zone.
As a medically trained divorce attorney/mediator, with a psychologically skilled understanding of narcissism, as well as other mental health issues, I’m here to tell you, there is hope.
There’s a smarter, saner, less expensive way through mediation and specifically, my unique psychologically based mediation.
“It’s Not You, It’s Them”: Understanding the Narcissist’s Divorce Playbook
Narcissists use divorce as a stage to perform. They often:
- Twist facts and rewrite history
- Play the victim while painting you as unstable
- Weaponize children, finances, and even the legal system
- Demand control and resist compromise at every turn
This behavior doesn’t just slow down divorce, it poisons the process. Traditional litigation can become a narcissist’s playground, providing endless opportunities for drama and delay.
The Toll on You
You may be:
- Emotionally exhausted
- Second-guessing your decisions
- Struggling to set boundaries
- Overwhelmed by legal and financial tactics
The result? A sense that you are the problem. But you’re not crazy, you’re navigating the psychological landmines of divorcing a narcissist.
My psychologically tailored, strategically ledmediation process is a powerful weapon when tackling a narcissist.
This method is uniquely suited for high-conflict divorces, especially those involving narcissistic partners. Here's why:
Psychological Insight
I don’t just mediate, I recognize narcissistic behavior in real time and understand how it manifests in negotiations.
Triple Expertise
My background in both law, mediation and psychology, I help clients:
- Remain grounded and emotionally resilient
- Anticipate and neutralize manipulation tactics
- Make informed, rational decisions and provide tailored guidance
Neutralizes Power Imbalances
Narcissists thrive on control. My mediation method sets up clear, structured boundaries, reducing opportunities for gaslighting, deflection, or emotional abuse during the mediation process.
Keeps You Out of Court
Litigation can be a weapon for a narcissist. My mediation process eliminates courtroom exposure, cutting off one of their favorite sources of chaos.
Real Results for Real People
For my clients I deliver:
- Lower stress levels compared to litigation
- Faster, more cost-effective resolutions
- Increased emotional clarity and confidence
- Protection for your children and assets
As a seasoned, medically trained divorce attorney and mediator, having worked with hundreds of abused spouses, I can tell you being verbally and financially abused by a narcissist is a devastating experience, but you are not alone!
If your spouse is manipulative, controlling, and self-serving and you’re looking for a way to reclaim your power, call me.
There are steps you can take to protect yourself and regain control. Recognizing the signs of abuse, creating a legal and psychological support network, and taking strategic actions toward financial and emotional independence are vital steps in breaking free from the clutches of a narcissist.
It takes incredible strength to leave a narcissist. It takes even more to navigate the divorce process strategically. It’s time to shed a toxic relationship and step into clarity.
With my unique mediation method your voice can be heard and your sanity preserved.
If you’re interested in exploring my psychologically based mediation process, visit My Website and schedule a free consultation with me. As a medically trained divorce professional who understands the unique challenges of narcissistic relationships, I can help!
Call me so I can help you take charge of your life. Schedule your free consultation right now 212.734.1551.
Warm regards,
Lois