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40+ Years Combined Experience
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PA-C Medical Training
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Dual Law + Medical Expertise
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Free Initial Consultation
About Lois M. Brenner, Esq.
A Divorce Attorney With Unique Expertise
Lois Brenner and her team bring more than 40 years of distinguished experience to divorce and family law, combined with a professional background that sets them uniquely apart. As a seasoned divorce attorney, mediator and medically trained professional, Lois offers clients a superior level of insight and sophistication rarely found in traditional divorce practices.
Drawing on her medical training and decades of divorce experience, Lois helps clients recognize mental health issues early, understand how they may affect important decision-making, and develops psychological and legal strategies to navigate their divorce effectively.
Lois Brenner and her team work with individuals in mediation and litigation, high-net-worth matters, custody disputes, equitable distribution, and complex litigation always providing thoughtful counsel and compassionate guidance.
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"My medical and legal training allow me and my team to look beyond the surface conflict of a divorce and understand the emotional and psychological dynamics often shaping it. When you understand what is truly driving the dispute, you are better equipped to protect your family, make sound decisions, and move forward with dignity."
Comprehensive Divorce Representation
Legal Services
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Divorce Attorney
Lois Brenner and her team help clients understand both mediation and litigation, guiding them toward the approach best suited to their unique circumstances. When narcissism or personality disorders are involved, her rare combination of legal and medical training provides insight most attorneys simply cannot offer.
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Divorce Litigation
When settlement is not possible, Lois Brenner and her team provide strong divorce litigation representation handling complex disputes involving finance, custody, support and property division.
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Mediation
When an amicable divorce is possible, Lois and her team encourage mediation and provide comprehensive support including mental health professionals, financial advisors, and divorce coaches costing less time, less money, and far less stress than litigation.
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High Net Worth
High-net-worth divorce cases involve complex financial structures, power dynamics, and high emotional conflict. Lois and her team work with executives, entrepreneurs, and high-net-worth individuals requiring psychological guidance, privacy, and financial protection.
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Child Custody
Every custody matter is approached with one guiding principle: protecting the child's best interests, emotional well-being, safety, and long-term stability. Lois brings rare medical training to complex custody disputes involving abuse, neglect, anxiety, and parenting capacity concerns.
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Equitable Distribution
Lois Brenner and her team help clients navigate the complex division of marital assets with clarity, strategy, and precision from homes and investments to professional practices and closely held businesses.
Understanding Your Options
Mediated vs. Litigated Divorce
There is more than one way to divorce. Lois Brenner and her team will guide you toward the best path for you and your family.
Mediation
✓ Both spouses work toward agreement
✓ Faster timeline, significantly lower cost
✓ More private, amicable, and dignified
✓ Less emotional stress for all involved
✓ Lois ensures agreements are fair and enforceable
✓ Protects your rights even in amicable cases
Litigation
✓ Disputes over custody, assets, or support
✓ High-conflict or mental health factors involved
✓ Spouse is non-cooperative or hiding assets
✓ Court hearings and advocacy required
✓ Lois's medical background is a critical advantage
✓ Strong courtroom strategy and representation
What Makes This Team Different
Why Choose Lois Brenner's Team
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Compassionate Counsel With Absolute DiscretionLois Brenner and her team approach every matter with exceptional sensitivity and emotional intelligence. Clients are supported with compassion, dignity, and respect throughout the process, which ensures you will feel understood, protected, and empowered.
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Personal Attention at the Highest LevelEvery client works directly with Lois Brenner and her carefully selected team. From strategy development to critical communications, your matter receives focused attention, discretion, and high-level guidance from experienced professionals.
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More Than 40+ Years of Proven Divorce AdvocacyWith more than four decades of experience handling mediation, litigation, and high-conflict divorce matters, Lois Brenner and her team bring exceptional legal knowledge, strategic judgment, and courtroom experience to every case.
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Medical Insight That Transforms Divorce RepresentationAs a divorce attorney and mediator with extensive medical training, Lois Brenner brings a rare level of interdisciplinary insight. Her combined legal and medical perspective is particularly valuable in cases involving narcissism, bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorders, and abuse.
Your Path Forward
How It Works
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1Resolution
Lois's team works to secure the best possible outcome and ensure you are equipped to move forward confidently.
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2Active Representation
Lois and her team advocate directly for you, keeping you informed and protected at every stage of your case.
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3Case Strategy
We assess your goals and risks to help determine the best legal path forward. Whether it is negotiation, mediation, or full litigation, the solution is tailored to your specific circumstances.
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4Free Consultation
Schedule by calling, emailing, or submitting the form. Lois and her team review your situation with complete confidentiality and no obligation.
Real Clients. Real Results.
Client Testimonials
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What a gem! Lois Brenner is the best out there by far... She got my husband and I right away. Listened, guided, let me cry, and never gave up on us during our mediation sessions. It was not easy but she made it possible. Even my husband liked her and agreed to mediate after we had lots of arguments. Thank you Lois. I already recommended you to my cardiologist. Have a happy, productive New Year.- Bernie A.
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“You are extremely knowledgeable and the consummate professional.”- Ben and Jill
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I met Lois Brenner at a networking group. She spoke on divorce and mediation. At the time I was not in need of a divorce attorney but was so impressed I kept her information. Two years later I hired Lois Brenner and I am finally separated from a man who nearly destroyed my life. Although we were able to do this with her in mediation, it was not easy for me. She really kept me strong, and on top of myself. She was helpful with both of us, and encouraged each of us when needed. It was much better than going through the court system. It took a lot less time and saved us money too. I can’t say enough about her. She is a special attorney. I tell everyone who will listen how special she is.- Pilar
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I have hired Mrs. Brenner and had the best experience with her in my complicated and intense divorce. She was there for me all the way, always answering promptly any questions I had. She gave me the best advice, in such a caring and kind way. She has an amazing team of specialists, that will cover any needs you might have. I highly recommend Mrs. Brenner, you can feel she’s got your back!- JN
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“We saved thousands of dollars!”- Gloria
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“You are New York’s best divorce lawyer!”- Danielle
Frequently Asked Questions
Common Questions
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Do we have to have mediation if we agree on divorce terms?
No, it is certainly not required. However, it might turn out to be beneficial to all involved to make sure that your agreement is equitable and fair to both parties.
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What areas does Lois Brenner's team serve?
Lois and her team serve clients across multiple areas and handle all divorce matters, including high net worth cases requiring complete discretion.
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Is the initial consultation really free and confidential?
Yes. Your consultation with Lois's team is completely free and protected by attorney-client privilege from the moment you make contact. Everything shared is strictly confidential and there is no obligation to retain services afterward.
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How does Lois's medical training help in a divorce case?
Lois's medical background provides critical insight in cases involving mental health, anxiety, bipolar disorder, abuse, and parenting capacity. This expertise is especially valuable in custody litigation, where psychological factors often play a decisive role in court decisions.
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How long does a divorce take?
Uncontested divorces, where both spouses are in general agreement, can often be finalized in 3 to 6 months with minimal court involvement. Contested divorces can take multiple years. It is not unheard of for some to take as many as 10 years. Lois and her team work efficiently to resolve matters without sacrificing your outcome.
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What is the difference between a divorce lawyer and a divorce attorney?
In practice, the terms are used interchangeably. Both refer to a licensed legal professional who represents clients in divorce and family law matters. Lois M. Brenner serves as both your strategic advisor and legal advocate, whether negotiating settlements or representing you in court.