If you have just been served with a summons for divorce, call me!
As a divorce attorney and psychologically-trained mediator for over 35
years, I will be happy to explain what needs to be done.
First, I will tell you that you have been formally put on notice that your
spouse has filed a petition for divorce. I will look at the summons to
see what your spouse is asking for, like spousal support, child support,
distribution of assets, visitation and so on.
I will also tell you that when you are properly served, a (clock) starts
ticking in court. In every state, there is a limit to the amount of time
you have to file an answer to your spouse's divorce summons. The number
of days you have varies from state to state. However, in every state,
the countdown begins the day you are served with your divorce papers.
In New York State it is 20 or 30 days.
I will also tell you not to be afraid. I am here to help and there are
a few ways to respond.
My role as a divorce attorney and psychologically-trained mediator is to
be legally informative and emotionally supportive in a sad and difficult
time. My role is to pave the path to productive discussions amidst a flurry
of very high emotions and to help a spouse make the right decisions.
So if you have been served with a summons, I suggest you do the following:
- Speak with a divorce attorney/mediator. Find out what your rights are,
and what you are entitled to;
- Consider mediation – if your spouse will back down from litigation.
Mediation is less stressful, not adversarial, more manageable, amicable,
cost effective and less time consuming;
- Acknowledge your emotions! They will range from tears, to anger, to wanting
revenge. It’s okay to feel sad and hurt!;
- Don’t try to hold on to someone who wants out. You don’t need
to spend the rest of your life with someone who doesn’t want to
be with you. You deserve much better!;
- Hire a divorce attorney/mediator who feels right to you. Someone you connect
with and who will guide, support and fight for you and your family!
Struggling relationships often end in divorce because the couple has stopped
trying and drifted apart. Often there are differing personality and character
issues affecting the marriage. Feelings are ignored and more often than
not, one spouse wants to stay, while the other spouse wants to go.
When a spouse decides to end a marriage, they have often made this decision
in response to abuse, their needs not being met, a breakdown in communication,
or simply not wanting to be married any longer.
If you get served with a summons, call me!
I, along with my litigation partner and team of experts will be happy to
speak with you and walk you through the divorce process.
Having successfully served NYC for over 35 years as an experienced New
York divorce attorney and medically-trained mediator, I can tell you that
having the most skilled legal support will give you the best results.
Call me to schedule a free consultation. 212.734.1551.
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New York Divorce Attorney Lois Brenner is available to help you with your divorce!
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We can book a consultation for you immediately!
If you have been served with a summons, call Lois Brenner first!