Blog Posts in 2023 Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 31-May-2023 8 Tips for Outsmarting a Narcissist in Your Divorce! Divorcing a narcissistic spouse can be scary, emotionally challenging, and exhausting. Narcissists are known for their manipulative tactics and self-centered behavior, which can make negotiations and settlements particularly difficult when trying to ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 30-May-2023 Top 10 Reasons Why It Is Not a Good Idea to Do Your Own Divorce! Divorce can be a daunting and emotionally charged process. Many people consider handling their own divorce to save money or maintain control over the proceedings. However, attempting a do-it-yourself (DIY) divorce may not be the smartest decision for ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 26-May-2023 Getting Married? Here Are 8 Reasons You Need a Prenuptial Agreement! When it comes to marriage, love, commitment, and trust are undoubtedly the cornerstones of a successful union. However, it is equally important to consider practical aspects of marriage and to protect both parties' interests. This is why you may ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 24-May-2023 Are Mental Health Issues and Abuse Destroying Your Marriage? As a psychologically trained divorce lawyer/mediator, I have heard from countless frightened spouses, abused wives, and distraught, confused husbands. Mental health issues in marriages are on the rise and destroying couples and families. We see all ... Continue Reading Posted By 22-May-2023 Divorce Story! As a divorce attorney and psychologically trained mediator, I hear all kinds of diverse divorce stories. I have decided to share some of these stories monthly with you. Naturally, I will change the names and some of the details to protect the ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 17-May-2023 What Is a Wife Entitled to in a Divorce in New York? Divorce can be a challenging and emotionally charged process, and understanding your rights and entitlements is crucial. If you're a wife considering a divorce in New York, it's important to be aware of the specific rights and protections ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 15-May-2023 10 Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating on You and What You Can Do About It! Discovering that your spouse may be cheating on you is a distressing and challenging situation. While signs of infidelity do not definitively prove they are cheating, they may indicate the possibility of an affair. As a divorce attorney/mediator, I ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 12-May-2023 Litigation? Negotiation? Mediation? Which Divorce Path Will You Choose? As a psychologically trained divorce attorney/mediator for more than 35 years, I have guided many spouses as they make the very important decision on getting divorced. I have shared with them that there are a few ways to get divorced in New York. One ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 10-May-2023 Social Media May Be Ruining Your Marriage! When a young woman called me and said, “Social media is ruining my marriage,” I told her I wasn’t surprised. Increasingly this is a chief complaint and cause for divorce. Couples don’t realize social media networking can be ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 8-May-2023 Is Your Spouse Hiding Assets in a Divorce? Divorce can be a difficult and emotional time for anyone, and it can become even more challenging when you suspect your spouse is hiding assets. As a divorce attorney/mediator, I receive calls all the time from spouses reporting their partner is ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 5-May-2023 8 Reasons to Say "Goodbye" to Your Divorce Lawyer! Every profession has wonderfully talented people. There will also be some professionals who are lazy, not assertive, or simply just not good at what they do. That’s just not good enough for you when it comes to your divorce attorney! As a ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 3-May-2023 Thinking of Divorcing a Bipolar Spouse? A couple met with me virtually during the pandemic. The wife was a shopaholic and had run up significant credit card debts during the pandemic. She was angry all the time and blew up at the husband and constantly yelled at the children. The husband, ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 1-May-2023 Why Celebrities and Chefs Should Consider Mediation When Divorcing! Divorce can be a difficult and emotionally draining process, especially for celebrities who have to go through it in the public eye. Many high-profile celebrity divorces have been publicized in the media, often involving legal battles and acrimonious ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 28-Apr-2023 My Advice on How to Protect Yourself and Prepare Properly to Divorce a Narcissist! Divorcing a narcissist can be an incredibly challenging, tiring, and emotionally draining experience. Narcissists have a deep-seated need for control, and they often refuse to accept responsibility for their actions. This can make it difficult to ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 26-Apr-2023 The Top 10 Reasons for Divorce and Why Marriages Fail! It’s Spring and lots of couples are getting ready to blissfully walk down the aisle, profess their love, and say, ‘I Do!” Marriage is a beautiful bond between two people who decide to spend their lives together, but unfortunately, ... Continue Reading