It’s Spring and lots of couples are getting ready to blissfully walk
down the aisle, profess their love, and say,
‘I Do!”
Marriage is a beautiful bond between two people who decide to spend their
lives together, but unfortunately, not all marriages have a happy ending.
As a divorce attorney/mediator for more than 35 years, I have heard many
unfortunate horror stories from spouses who were once in love and dreamt
of a happily ever after,
but then things changed.
Divorce is a very common occurrence in today's society, and there are
several reasons why marriages fail.
Here are the top 10 reasons for divorce today and why marriages fail. You
may want to watch out for these unfortunate red flags!
1. Infidelity
One of the primary reasons for divorce is infidelity. When one partner
cheats on the other, it can cause significant trust issues, emotional
pain, and damage the relationship irreparably.
2. Communication Breakdown
A lack of communication or ineffective communication is another common
reason for divorce. When couples don't talk to each other or express
their feelings and emotions, it can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts,
and resentment.
3. Financial Issues
Financial problems, such as debt, overspending, or disagreements about
money, can strain a marriage to the breaking point. Financial stress can
create tensions that can damage the relationship.
4. Differences in Values and Beliefs
When couples have fundamental differences in their values, beliefs, or
lifestyle choices, it can be challenging to maintain a healthy relationship.
Differences in parenting styles or religious beliefs can cause significant
disagreements that can lead to divorce.
5. Lack of Intimacy
Intimacy is a crucial component of a healthy marriage, and when one partner
is not interested in or able to engage in intimacy, it can create significant
problems in the relationship.
6. Unrealistic Expectations
When couples enter into a marriage with unrealistic expectations, such
as expecting their partner to change or fulfill all their emotional needs,
it can lead to disappointment, frustration, and ultimately, divorce.
7. Growing Apart
Over time, couples can grow apart, especially if they don't make an
effort to maintain the relationship. If they don't spend time together,
share common interests, or communicate effectively, they may drift apart
and eventually end up divorced.
8. Mental Illness and Addictions
Mental illness, substance abuse, or addiction can put a significant strain
on a marriage. The mentally ill or addicted spouse may prioritize themselves
over their spouse, leading to conflicts, resentment, and ultimately divorce.
9. Domestic Violence
Domestic violence is a serious issue that can lead to divorce. Abuse can
take many forms, including physical, emotional, and verbal abuse, and
can cause long-term damage to the victim's mental and physical health.
10. Infertility
When couples struggle with infertility, it can put a significant strain
on their marriage. The emotional and physical toll of infertility can
create tensions, lead to conflicts, and ultimately, end in divorce.
Remember, communication, trust, and mutual respect are essential components
of a healthy and happy marriage.
If any of the above is happening in your marriage and you are thinking
about divorce, call me. We can discuss your options, whether it be mediation,
litigation, or negotiation, I can help you! We can talk about the details
of your marriage and select the best path for you.
For those of you not quite ready for divorce, there are other options,
like a separation or postnuptial agreement.
Call me today and we can discuss the right path for you. My free consultations
are informative and comprehensive.
All our
FREE 1 HOUR CONSULTATIONS are
still conveniently conducted virtually.
We still have some appointments available for this week.
I look forward to helping you.
Warm regards,
Lois
When it comes to your future and that of your family, don’t leave
anything to chance.
If you are thinking about divorce call New York Divorce Lawyer Lois M.
Brenner, Esq. to schedule your free consultation right now! Call 212.734.1551.