Yes, you heard right! The magic of my unique psychologically infused mediation
process can get you talking, negotiating, and signing your separation
agreement and divorce documents quickly and less expensively than going to court!
As a skilled, psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator with
over 35 years of experience, I say, “If you were once in love, able
to organize your lives, and build a life together, you should be able
to discuss and organize your lives to dissolve your marriage and to live
You can do it quickly, without spending all your family finances, in a
non-adversarial process, instead of painfully.
I often tell couples, with my unique mediation process, everyone is a winner.
Mediation offers a less painful way to approach divorce. Mediation is
a different way of viewing divorce, and I like to recommend mediation
to clients as the peaceful path to divorce.
“What? You haven’t thought about mediation?”
Well, let me tell you…
Mediation is a process of negotiating an agreement between divorcing spouses
on the important issues: children, spousal support, finances, and property.
The divorce mediator (me) is there to keep you on track, make sure negotiations
are productive, and make suggestions when you go off on a tangent.
The focus of mediation is your controlling your own divorce. Couples have
the opportunity to discuss their personal needs and priorities and to
arrive at a mutually acceptable agreement.
When couples meet with me virtually, they have a strong tendency to talk
about their grievances during the marriage – what happened in the
past. There is plenty of blame and name-calling to go around. What I know
as a seasoned divorce attorney and mediator, is that talking about the
past does not result in an agreement. In fact, it often prevents arriving
at an agreement.
Part of my role is to direct a couple to talk about what they want for
the future. This feels sort of strange to the couple who is used to arguing
about past behavior.
In my process as mediator, I will summarize, emphasizing useful information
and ignoring irrelevant and emotional comments.
I advise my mediation couples that they can each consult a divorce lawyer
at any time.
Another appealing aspect of the mediation process is time and cost. Many
of my divorce mediation cases can be resolved in a month instead of many
months or years, and can cost tens of thousands of dollars less than fighting
your case in court.
Mediation, the less adversarial approach to divorce, will keep more money
in your pocket for you and your family. Mediation will give you peace
of mind and help you keep your dignity in the process.
When couples are considering divorce, I try to introduce the more peaceful
and powerful approach first.
There is no easy path to divorce, but divorce mediation is a less painful
road to travel and should be embraced as a peaceful alternative!
If you want your divorce amicably and quickly, try my unique, successful
divorce mediation process!
I am offering Free 1 hour consultations; why not call me to learn more…
All our FREE I HOUR CONSULTATIONS are discreetlyand conveniently conducted virtually to reduce risk.
I look forward to sharing all the impressive benefits of mediation with you!
Stay healthy and safe!!
Call New York Divorce Lawyer Lois Brenner now to book your Free 1 Hour
Consultation and learn more about her Divorce Mediation Process! It’s amazing!!