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DIVORCE: With or Without Lawyers!


It’s true! The courts will be opening up again soon! The backlog will be brutal, and for many of you thinking of divorce going to court may be unnecessary! Why go to court when you can divorce without lawyers. You will avoid the turmoil of the court system and save time, money and stress in the process.

I have been educating couples and the public for many years about how divorce doesn’t always have to be down and dirty. Divorce can be handled in a variety of ways. I can help you litigate, negotiate or mediate! It’s important to know your options!

Many divorce attorneys won’t tell you this.They will say, “Go to court, spend money and fight!” Sometimes going to court and fighting is the only solution. I too say, “When all else fails, fight!” I always fight for my clients’ rights regardless of which path they choose, but not before evaluating the couple’s psychological dynamics and the law; not before trying to help them establish a productive means of communication and formulating strategy; not before telling them what to expect if they do go to court, helping them and their children create some type of normalcy through a very difficult life experience, and not before showing them how to keep their money in their pockets.

My successful divorce process is a people-based alternative! It embraces your relationship dynamics, your personality traits, your situation, and includes psychology, emotions, thoughts, behavior and the law. It is not a one-size-fits-all divorce!

My medical background with training in psychiatry and my legal skills have given me the special tools to evaluate the dynamics of a marriage, both legally and psychologically; based upon those findings, I direct couples towards the best solution for them.

Even when couples are fighting and think they can’t talk to each other; it is possible to create the opportunity for each of them to be heard and supported both legally and emotionally.

During this process a couple will explore all the options, be better informed, and know that they have choices.

Divorce under the best of circumstances is never easy. But the path you choose can be less painful, less expensive, and faster so you can both move on with your lives.

Remember, if you are thinking about divorcing, separation or a postnuptial agreement it doesn’t have to be a nightmare. Don’t overlook your options. Don’t let attorneys tell you there are none!

Mediation saves energy, time and money! Give me a call and I will tell you all about it!

During the ongoing COVID-19 Pandemic all our FREE 1 HOUR CONSULTATIONS are conveniently conducted virtually by telephone or TeleDivorce by Zoom or Skype to reduce risk and maintain safety.

Call me to explore, during a free informative consultation, what is possible for you and your family!

I look forward to speaking with you.

Continue to Stay Home, Stay Healthy & Stay Safe!

Warm regards,

Call New York Divorce Lawyer, Lois Brenner now to book your free consultation. 212.734.1551