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If You Are Divorcing You Need to Get Your Estate in Order!


Divorce is really messy. It’s an extremely difficult time emotionally. As a seasoned psychologically-trained divorce attorney and mediator, I work with divorcing couples all the time who share their sadness, confusion, anxiety and unhappiness with me. Divorce is a complex process and can be a painful struggle.

When divorcing there is a lot to do, and there are many, many important decisions to make. Making a new will, creating a healthcare proxy and having a power of attorney is an equally important part of the process.

If you are divorcing let me help you get your estate in order too!

So let’s get started…


Do you have one?If you don’t, you need one.You should designate who will make important medical decisions for you if you are unable to do so.If you are divorcing and already have a healthcare proxy, you may need to update it.After all, you probably don’t want your angry spouse making medical decisions for you!

Do you?


A Power of Attorney (POA) is a legal document giving one person (the agent or attorney-in-fact) the power to act for another person (the principal). The agent can have broad legal authority or limited authority to make legal decisions about the principal's property, finances or other matters. If you don’t have a POA, you should consider having one drafted. If you are divorcing you and your spouse may have executed powers of attorney. If it is a durable power of attorney, it gives your spouse access to all of your accounts and assets now, whether you are competent or not. If you are divorcing, and it’s not amicable, this should concern you. I often suggest clients revoke that power of attorney and prepare a new one to designate someone else.


Do you have a will?If not, you should have one drafted. A will sometimes called a “last will and testament,” is a document that states your final wishes. A will can be used to leave instructions about what should happen to your property after you die, and who should carry out your instructions (your executor).

If you are divorcing, you should update or execute a new will. You probably don’t want your current spouse in charge of your estate. I guide clients all the time about the importance of having a will and the need to update or make a new one if a divorce takes place.

If you have questions or need help making a new will or updating your will, call me. If you are thinking about divorce and have questions about your healthcare proxy, power of attorney, or will, call me.

I am available right now to answer your questions.

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I look forward to speaking with you.

Warm regards,


Call New York Divorce Attorney Lois Brenner now to discuss your will, healthcare proxy, or power of attorney!

Schedule your free consultation now. 212.734.1551