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Need Help Divorcing a Spouse With a Personality Disorder?


If you do, I have some unique, successful, legal and psychological strategies that can help!

Is it hard to remember a time when your marriage was happy and you and your spouse were in-sync? Now it seems all you do is live in drama, there is lots of distance and constant hostility.

As a psychologically-trained divorce attorney and mediator for over 35 years, I can tell you there might be a lot more going on than just poor communication. It might be that your spouse has a personality disorder.

If you answer “Yes” to the below you are probably living with a spouse with a personality disorder. No, you’re not crazy! But, they might be!

It’s All About Them

It’s never about you or what you need. It’s all about how they feel, what they need, and how they think. The only time you get attention is if you are being blamed for something.

Accepts No Responsibility

The words “I’m sorry” never leaves their lips. Why would it? It’s always your fault, never theirs. They accept no responsibility or accountability. It’s everyone else’s fault.

Loves a Chaotic Environment

When things are peaceful they can’t wait to stir the pot. Loves to create stress and disorder in the home. Isn’t happy unless everyone else is unhappy.

Gets Great Pleasure From Manipulation

The truth is constantly twisted. You are being abused, manipulated and controlled. You are verbally assaulted, and isolated from family and friends. You are a victim of gaslighting, sexual coercion and withholding money.

Likes to Make You Think You Are Crazy

Do you feel like you are losing your mind?

Have you been convinced by your spouse that you are the problem? You have failed? You are worthless?

If you are living in the above marriage, you are not in a marriage, you are part of a circus and you’re being controlled by the ring master.

Your spouse may say they want a happy, healthy marriage but their actions say otherwise. This is not a marriage, you are being held hostage by a spouse with personality disorder. You are going to need strength and a unique team of professionals to get you out of this type of marriage.

Acknowledging that a personality disorder is a third party in your marriage is the first step. The next step is to pick up your phone and call a professional like me and my team of experts.

This takes a specialized divorce approach filled with legal strategy and keen psychological insight.

As a psychologically-trained divorce attorney and mediator, I am uniquely qualified to provide you with the psychological guidance and legal strategy necessary to remove yourself safely from the grip of a spouse with a personality disorder. Call me now to find out more…

All our FREE 1 HOUR CONSULTATIONS are still available virtually.

I look forward to helping you secure a safe and successful removal from a marriage to someone with a personality disorder.

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New York Divorce Lawyer Lois Brenner is available to help you get out of a destructive marriage to a spouse with a personality disorder. Call not to schedule your FREE consultation.

Call 212.734.1551.