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Is a Narcissist Ruining Your Life?


You may ask yourself, “How did I get here? Why did I let this happen to me?” What was I thinking?”

The answer is you were seduced by a narcissist’s charisma and cunning tactics. Don’t be too hard on yourself. The best and the brightest can be deceived by a narcissist.

No one sets out to marry a narcissist. Their behavior charms you and sneaks up on you. Don’t feel embarrassed or ashamed if you find yourself the victim of a narcissist; you are not alone!

There are various healthy traits of narcissism in many of us. But then there is the actual diagnosis of narcissistic personality disorder.

As a psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator, I am uniquely skilled at identifying a narcissistic spouse in a marriage and guiding a spouse carefully to terminate a marriage.

From my psychological training I want to share with you some of the telltale signs of narcisisstic behavior:

A narcissist:

  • Believes they are “special”-- can only be understood by an intellectual few or should associate with only the elite
  • Has a grandiose sense of self
  • Demands excessive attention
  • Has a strong sense of entitlement
  • Lacks empathy
  • Is arrogant
  • Spends a lot of time on appearance
  • Is extremely likable when you first meet
  • Is his/her favorite subject
  • Name drops
  • Is a drama king/queen
  • Hypersensitive to criticism
  • Takes no responsibility for anything
  • Is a control freak

If you are married to someone with several of these traits, it’s time to consider moving on…

Life with a narcissist is usually abusive and definitely emotionally draining.

Taking the right steps, with the skilled guidance of a professional, is imperative to safely remove yourself from this type of abusive relationship and marriage.

A narcissist is a toxic, high maintenance personality.

If I can help you navigate a path out of this type of marriage, let me know.

I am familiar with the traits of a narcissist and uniquely trained as both a medical professional and divorce attorney to help you successfully and safely divorce the narcissist in your life.

All our FREE 1 HOUR CONSULTATIONS are still available virtually.

Warm regards,


Call New York Divorce Lawyer Lois Brenner now to rid your life of a narcissist.

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