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• Child Custody - Click here to view all posts

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  • Questions Often Asked About Child Custody During My Free Consultations!
    Child custody battles are often one of the most emotionally charged and difficult situations for parents to navigate. When a relationship breaks down, it can be challenging to come to an agreement on ...
  • My Checklist for an Effective Parenting Agreement!
    When parents separate or divorce, it is important to create a parenting agreement that outlines how they will share responsibilities for their children's care and upbringing. As a skilled, ...
  • 10 Reasons You Deserve Custody of Your Child in a Divorce!
    As a divorce attorney and mediator, I receive calls from couples of young children asking various questions about custody. Often, these parents have little idea that “custody” is actually ...
  Child Support - Click here to view all posts

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  • Do You Have Questions About Child Support?
    The role of parents is to provide love, care and stability for their children. When parents decide to divorce, children are often the first to suffer. Sometimes children get lost in the complicated ...
  • Ways to Prepare for Your Divorce in the New Year!
    Although we are all trying to enjoy the holidays and navigate this pandemic, some of us are using this valuable time to prepare for life moving forward as we look to a new year. Now is the time to ...
  • Child Support Tips!
    1. What Is Child Support Child support is financial support provided by the noncustodial parent. It includes cash payments based on the parent's income and the needs of the child, health ...
  Divorce - Click here to view all posts

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  • 10 Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating on You and What You Can Do About It!
    Discovering that your spouse may be cheating on you is a distressing and challenging situation. While signs of infidelity do not definitively prove they are cheating, they may indicate the possibility ...
  • Litigation? Negotiation? Mediation? Which Divorce Path Will You Choose?
    As a psychologically trained divorce attorney/mediator for more than 35 years, I have guided many spouses as they make the very important decision on getting divorced. I have shared with them that ...
  • Social Media May Be Ruining Your Marriage!
    When a young woman called me and said, “Social media is ruining my marriage,” I told her I wasn’t surprised. Increasingly this is a chief complaint and cause for divorce. Couples ...
  Divorce Advice for Business Partners - Click here to view all posts

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  • Am I Entitled to Part of the Family Business in My Divorce?
    Divorce is no doubt an emotional nightmare, but it is also a financial and legal separation of a couple and their family. When considering divorce, spouses have a lot to consider financially like ...
  • Divorce and the Family Business!
    Divorces for people who own businesses are different from those of wage earners. First of all, businesses often have cash income which is not declared on tax returns. This makes it difficult to ...
  • Taking Your First Divorce Step!
    When did you start thinking about divorce? Was it during the coronavirus pandemic? Was it because of finances, fighting, infidelity, control issues, social media postings, or did you simply fall out ...
  Divorce Mediation - Click here to view all posts

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  • My List of Topics You Should Be Prepared to Discuss in Our Mediation Sessions
    Divorce mediation is a process that helps couples reach a mutually acceptable agreement on the terms of their divorce without the need for a trial or court intervention. Mediation puts you in the ...
  • My 7 Tips to Help You Prepare for a Successful Divorce Mediation Process!
    For more than 35 years, I have successfully served New York as a medically trained divorce attorney and mediator. After witnessing the deep pain of many spouses day after day, I decided to develop a ...
  • Did You Know Mediation Is the Preferred Divorce Method for Millennials?
    The millennial generation, born between 1980-2000, are enthusiastically embracing Divorce Mediation. Millennials are different from Generation X and Baby Boomers. They are tech savvy, play well with ...
  Divorce Negotiation - Click here to view all posts

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  • I Can Help You Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce!
    One of the housewives of a well known franchise called me to ask for my help on how to tell her spouse she wanted a divorce. Her husband had grown distant. He was barely holding a job anymore and ...
  • Do You Know What The Grounds Are for Divorce in New York?
    As a divorce attorney/mediator for over 35 years, I am often asked during a consultation about the grounds for divorce in New York. There are seven grounds for divorce. Irretrievable breakdown was ...
  • Do I Need to Hire a Lawyer If I am Mediating my Divorce?
    As a psychologically-trained divorce attorney and mediator, I am uniquely skilled as both an attorney and a mediator. When I am wearing my mediator hat and guiding a couple in the mediation process, I ...
  Domestic Partnership - Click here to view all posts

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  • Can Mediation Help Your Domestic Partnership?
    As a divorce attorney and mediator for over 35 years, I have helped thousands of couples in all kinds of relationships. You may be thinking, “What is a domestic partnership?” In New York, ...
  Family Law - Click here to view all posts

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  • Is Your Wife Abusing You?
    I have worked with quite a few men over the last 35 years who all found themselves in very emotionally abusive relationships with their wives. In particular, in the last two years, abuse has ...
  • Do You Know What The Grounds Are for Divorce in New York?
    As a divorce attorney/mediator for over 35 years, I am often asked during a consultation about the grounds for divorce in New York. There are seven grounds for divorce. Irretrievable breakdown was ...
  • Divorce Story
    As a divorce attorney and psychologically-trained mediator, I hear all kinds of diverse divorce stories. I have decided to share some of these stories monthly with you. Naturally, I will change the ...
  Finance - Click here to view all posts

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  • Is Your Spouse Hiding Assets in a Divorce?
    Divorce can be a difficult and emotional time for anyone, and it can become even more challenging when you suspect your spouse is hiding assets. As a divorce attorney/mediator, I receive calls all the ...
  • Need Help Divorcing a Millionaire?
    Divorcing a millionaire can be a financially complicated and an emotionally draining ordeal. Whether you are the spouse seeking the divorce or the one who is being served with divorce papers, there ...
  • 8 Reasons Why High Net Worth Spouses Need a Financially Savvy Divorce Attorney!
    Divorce can be a difficult and emotionally charged process for anyone, but for high net worth individuals, the stakes can be even higher. With larger marital estates and more complex financial assets, ...
  Mediation - Click here to view all posts

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  • Why Celebrities and Chefs Should Consider Mediation When Divorcing!
    Divorce can be a difficult and emotionally draining process, especially for celebrities who have to go through it in the public eye. Many high-profile celebrity divorces have been publicized in the ...
  • Divorce Story
    As a divorce attorney and psychologically trained mediator, I hear all kinds of diverse divorce stories. I have decided to share some of these stories monthly with you. Naturally, I will change the ...
  • The Psychological Benefits of Using Mediation as Your Divorce Path!
    Mediation is a process in which a neutral third-party helps individuals in conflict to communicate and reach a mutually agreed upon solution. This alternative dispute resolution method has become ...
  Mental Health - Click here to view all posts

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  • Are Mental Health Issues and Abuse Destroying Your Marriage?
    As a psychologically trained divorce lawyer/mediator, I have heard from countless frightened spouses, abused wives, and distraught, confused husbands. Mental health issues in marriages are on the rise ...
  • My 5 Suggestions on How to Compassionately Divorce a Hoarder!
    Divorce is really messy, sad, and confusing and when one partner is a hoarder, it can add an extra layer of complexity and emotional distress. Hoarding is a mental health disorder that affects people ...
  • What You Need to Know About Divorcing a Spouse With Borderline Personality Disorder!
    What You Need to Know About Divorcing a Spouse With Borderline Personality Disorder! Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition that affects a person's thoughts, emotions, ...
  Postnuptial Agreement - Click here to view all posts

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  • A Postnuptial Agreement May Save Your Marriage! Learn More...
    A postnuptial agreement, also known as a postnup, is a legal contract between spouses that outlines the division of assets and liabilities in the event of divorce or separation. While prenuptial ...
  • Did You Know a Postnuptial Agreement Can Be a Great Alternative to Divorce?
    Some couples think divorce is the only way to solve marital issues, but as a psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator, I often recommend a postnuptial agreement as a healthy alternative ...
  • Is Your Marriage at Risk? A Postnuptial Agreement Could Help!
    Weddings and the holiday season are upon us and many couples will be blissfully walking down the aisle with love in their hearts and visions of forever! But as a divorce attorney/mediator for more ...
  Prenuptial - Click here to view all posts

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  • My Top 11 Tips for What Women Should Ask for in a Prenuptial Agreement!
    Prenuptial agreements have become increasingly popular in recent years, and for good reason. These legal documents can help protect both parties in a marriage, ensuring that assets and liabilities are ...
  • 5 Reasons Millennials Are Saying "I Do" to Prenuptial Agreements!
    For many savvy couples these days, especially millennials, careful planning to have the best possible financially protected future together is an important consideration. With more than 35 years of ...
  • Getting Engaged on Valentine's Day? Thinking About a Prenuptial Agreement?
    Valentine’s Day is definitely the most romantic day to pop the big question. The atmosphere sets the tone to take that beautiful ring out of your pocket, profess your love, and hope to spend a ...
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  • Getting Married? Here Are 8 Reasons You Need a Prenuptial Agreement!
    When it comes to marriage, love, commitment, and trust are undoubtedly the cornerstones of a successful union. However, it is equally important to consider practical aspects of marriage and to protect ...
  • Are You Getting Engaged on Valentine's Day? Thinking About a Prenuptial Agreement?
    Valentine’s Day is definitely the most romantic day to pop the big question. The atmosphere sets the tone to take that beautiful ring out of your pocket, profess your love, and hope to spend a ...
  • Don't Sign That Prenuptial Agreement Until...
    You have a skilled family law attorney review what you are signing. You must protect yourself and get what you are entitled to in the event of a divorce. As a seasoned family law attorney and ...
  Psychology - Click here to view all posts

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  • 8 Tips for Outsmarting a Narcissist in Your Divorce!
    Divorcing a narcissistic spouse can be scary, emotionally challenging, and exhausting. Narcissists are known for their manipulative tactics and self-centered behavior, which can make negotiations and ...
  • My Advice on How to Protect Yourself and Prepare Properly to Divorce a Narcissist!
    Divorcing a narcissist can be an incredibly challenging, tiring, and emotionally draining experience. Narcissists have a deep-seated need for control, and they often refuse to accept responsibility ...
  • Thinking of Divorcing a Spouse With an Eating Disorder?
    Eating disorders are complex mental health conditions that can have serious consequences for individuals and their relationships. While the physical effects of eating disorders are well-known, the ...
  Separation - Click here to view all posts

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  • Unhappy in Your Marriage? Deciding Whether You Should Separate or Divorce?
    Thinking about separation or divorce? Whatever direction you choose, I’m here to answer all your questions, keep you on track, and help you meet your goals! With decades of experience as a ...
  • Make Sure Your Separation Agreement Includes Everything You Want Before You Sign It!
    Yes, make sure you are getting everything you want and deserve! It’s an important part of the divorce process! Don’t take signing your agreement lightly. Many spouses expect divorce to be ...
  • Do I need a Separation Agreement?
    Yes, you do! It’s an important part of the divorce process! Many spouses expect divorce to be an ongoing battle, but as a seasoned New York divorce attorney/mediator, I tell many spouses, it ...
  Spousal Support - Click here to view all posts

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  • What Is a Wife Entitled to in a Divorce in New York?
    Divorce can be a challenging and emotionally charged process, and understanding your rights and entitlements is crucial. If you're a wife considering a divorce in New York, it's important to ...
  • Divorcing? What You Need to Know About Spousal Maintenance!
    Divorce can be a complicated and emotional process, especially when it comes to the financial aspects of separating from a spouse. One area that often causes confusion and disagreement is spousal ...
  • Wondering if You Are Entitled to Spousal Support?
    As a divorce attorney and mediator for more than 35 years, I hear this question from nervous spouses all the time. “Will I get spousal support? How long will it last? Will I be able to have the ...
  Taxes - Click here to view all posts

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  • Don't Become a Divorce and Tax Horror Story!
    Yes, it’s that time of year again as we gear up to deal with our taxes! For those getting a divorce, taxes are probably the least of their worries, but taxes and divorce are not always as ...
  • Divorce and Taxes!
    Tax time is right around the corner! For those getting a divorce, taxes are the least of their worries, but taxes and divorce are not always as straight forward as one might think. As a divorce ...
  • Taking Your First Divorce Step!
    When did you start thinking about divorce? Was it during the coronavirus pandemic? Was it because of finances, fighting, infidelity, control issues, social media postings, or did you simply fall out ...
  Will - Click here to view all posts

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  • If You Are Divorcing You Need to Get Your Estate in Order!
    Divorce is really messy. It’s an extremely difficult time emotionally. As a seasoned psychologically-trained divorce attorney and mediator, I work with divorcing couples all the time who share ...
  • Getting Divorced? Don't Forget to Update Your Will!
    Divorce is unpleasant. It’s an extremely difficult time emotionally. I work with divorcing spouses all the time who share their sadness, confusion, anxiety and unhappiness with me. It’s a ...
  • Divorcing? Don't Forget to Get Your Estate in Order!
    Divorce is sad, unpleasant and often lonely. It’s an extremely difficult time emotionally. I work with divorcing couples all the time who share their confusion, frustration and unhappiness with ...