Blog Posts in November, 2019

• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 27-Nov-2019

  Lois Brenner's New York Divorce 101!

  When did you start thinking about divorce? Was it because of finances, fighting, infidelity, control issues, social media postings, or did you simply fall out of love? Couples don’t just wake up one day and decide they want a divorce. A lot of ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 25-Nov-2019

  4 Tips to Avoid Divorce Disaster!

  Litigation sucks! No doubt. I try to help clients avoid it whenever possible. But sometimes it’s the only way to have a spouse sit up and listen. But make no mistake, if you are not mentally aware and legally prepared your divorce can be a ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 21-Nov-2019

  Is Social Media Killing Your Marriage?

  When a young woman called me and said, “Social Media Killed My Marriage,” I told her I wasn’t surprised. More and more this is a chief complaint and cause for divorce. Couples don’t realize social media networking ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 19-Nov-2019

  Are You Living with a Controlling Spouse?

  My new client seemed very anxious and started twirling her hair around her finger. She started by telling me that she was very concerned because her husband kept separate bank accounts and he was cutting down on the “spending” money he ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 13-Nov-2019

  My Separation Agreement Checklist!

  Are you thinking of Divorce? Well, you’re not alone. With 40%-50% of all marriages ending in divorce this is not as uncommon as you think. An important part of the divorce process is developing an agreement you can both live with. An agreement ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 11-Nov-2019

  Could your Spouse be Bipolar?

  A divorcing couple came to see me for mediation. The husband had significant outstanding credit card bills. He also drank quite a bit. The wife wanted a divorce and they had one child. Whenever we had a meeting, the husband dominated the meeting, ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 6-Nov-2019

  5 Signs you are Married to a Psychopath!

  As a divorce attorney I meet all kinds of people from all walks of life. I have found many clients don’t always realize the kind of person they are married to. For example, some clients are married to someone with a character disorder and they ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 4-Nov-2019

  10 Signs your Spouse may be Cheating!

  Do you lie awake at night and wonder? Do you have a feeling in the pit of your stomach most of the time? You know something is not quite right, but you can’t put your finger on it. Do you think your spouse is cheating? Are you afraid to ask? Do ...

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