Blog Posts in May, 2021

• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 31-May-2021

  "Gray Divorces" Are on the Rise!

  The divorce rate overall has been declining for the past 40 years except for individuals over 50. “Gray Divorces” are actually on the rise! It’s not surprising that Bill and Melinda Gates recently announced they were getting ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 28-May-2021

  Let Us Help You Get Child Support!

  As a divorce attorney/mediator for over 35 years, I, and my litigation partner have successfully guided many spouses through the maze of obtaining child support. Making sure a child is protected and supported financially is an important part of the ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 26-May-2021

  Are Mental Health Issues Destroying Your Marriage?

  Prince Harry and Oprah just aired the first episode of their new mental health documentary series on Apple TV+, “The Me You Can’t See.” It’s a must see! The series features individuals and some high-profile guests living with ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 24-May-2021

  Do You Want Custody of Your Children?

  Getting custody of your children when divorcing can be a big challenge. As a child custody specialist, I can guide you successfully through the process! Most courts prefer a shared or joint custody arrangement. When a parent wants sole custody, I ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 21-May-2021

  Did You Know Bill and Melinda Gates Didn't Have A Prenuptial Agreement? Should You?

  Bill Gates and Melinda Gates, two of the world's most wealthy and powerful philanthropists have announced they’re getting divorced, and guess what? They don’t have a prenuptial agreement. Shocking, right? If there is anything we have ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 19-May-2021

  Are You Experiencing Divorce Anxiety?

  Yes, divorce anxiety is a real thing. It’s painful. Comes and goes. And it’s not as uncommon as you think. You are not alone! As a psychologically-trained medical professional, mediator and divorce attorney, I can spot divorce anxiety ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 17-May-2021

  Are You Being Kept in the Dark About the Family Finances?

  Are you denied the right to see banking or investment statements? Are you told to sign a tax statement without reading it? If so, your spouse is controlling you, keeping you in the dark and is probably hiding assets. At many of my seminars over the ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 14-May-2021

  Divorce Story

  As a divorce attorney and psychologically trained mediator, I hear all kinds of diverse divorce stories. I have decided to share some of these stories monthly with you. Naturally, I will change the names and some of the details to protect my clients. ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 12-May-2021

  Divorcing? Mediate or Litigate?

  When spouses call me these days they are usually looking for direction. They have decided to divorce, and have googled and researched everything about divorce, but they are not sure what to do. They have read about going to court, negotiation and ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 10-May-2021

  A Parenting Agreement Can be a Peaceful Approach to Child Custody!

  As a seasoned New York family law attorney, mediator, and psychologically-trained medical professional, I regularly advise mothers and fathers going through divorce who are considering a custody action. For those couples who can agree on custody, I ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 7-May-2021

  Don't Sign That Prenuptial Agreement Until...

  Don’t sign that prenuptial agreement until you have a knowledgeable family law attorney review what you are signing. Become educated, know what you are entitled to, and don’t give away any of your rights! There is lots of love and ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 5-May-2021

  Do You Want to Divorce a Controlling Spouse?

  During a recent phone consultation, I spoke with a woman in her late 40s who tearfully explained she had no control over her life. Her husband had multiple separate bank accounts and was cutting back on her “spending money,” which he gave ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 3-May-2021

  Divorce Can Change Your Life! For the Better!

  I often tell my clients going through a divorce, the only predictability in life is change. We all dread and reluctantly develop coping mechanisms for managing the inevitable change that is part of being human, just as we are all adjusting to life ...

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