Blog Posts in January, 2021

• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 29-Jan-2021

  Is a Narcissistic Spouse Destroying Your Life?

  As a divorce attorney and psychologically-trained mediator, I uniquely guide couples, especially those with behavioral problems, towards dignified divorces. Many of the couples I work with complain that narcissism is an unhealthy third party in their ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 27-Jan-2021

  I Want a Divorce. Should I Leave The Marital Residence?

  The answer is, “No!” I tell clients never to leave their home (or hardly ever). Making this move can work against you when divorcing if not properly strategized. I often hear from clients that once divorce is on the table it is extremely ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 25-Jan-2021

  Divorcing? Try Divorce Mediation During the Pandemic! It will Save You Money, Time and Pain!

  As a divorce attorney and psychologically-trained mediator, I am juggling tons of emails and phone calls from clients divorcing and spouses thinking of divorcing during the coronavirus pandemic. These couples’ issues began way before the ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 22-Jan-2021

  Am I Entitled to Part of the Family Business in My Divorce?

  Divorce is no doubt an emotional nightmare, but it is also a financial and legal separation of a couple and their family. When considering divorce, spouses have a lot to consider financially like budgets, assets, property, and retirement accounts. ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 20-Jan-2021

  Warning: Don't Sign That Prenuptial Agreement Until...

  Don't sign a prenuptial agreement until you have a family law attorney review what you are signing. Be sure to get what you are entitled to! Many couples got engaged over the holidays. Often, a couple about to enter a marriage will go to an ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 18-Jan-2021

  Don't Make A Divorce Mistake!

  When people decide to divorce it is usually in the whirlwind of heightened emotion. People are not always thinking rationally in this mindset. I often caution clients not to be reactive when thinking about divorcing. I suggest they stop, think, and ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 15-Jan-2021

  Is It Time to Divorce Your Addicted Spouse?

  Spouses faced with addiction being a third party in their relationship generally find divorce to be their only way out. As a psychologically-trained medical professional and divorce attorney, I have a unique approach to guiding couples through ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 13-Jan-2021

  What to Do When Your Spouse Wants a Divorce!

  It is not unusual for a spouse to hear with no warning from the other that they want a divorce. There can be a lot of factors influencing a partner to come to this decision. It could be another woman or man, a midlife crisis, psychological issues, or ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 11-Jan-2021

  5 Things You Need Know About Child Support!

  As a divorce attorney/mediator for over 35 years, I have guided many spouses through the maze of child support. Making sure a child is supported financially is an important component of the divorce process. 1. What is Child Support? Child support is ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 8-Jan-2021

  7 Signs Your Spouse May Be Cheating!

  Do you lie awake at night and wonder? Do you have a feeling in the pit of your stomach most of the time? You know something is not quite right, but you can’t put your finger on it. Do you think your spouse is cheating? Are you afraid to ask? Do ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 7-Jan-2021

  Lois Brenner Highlighted in Brides Magazine

  Considering a Prenup? Here’s Everything You Need to Know by Colleen Sullivan | Updated 01/05/21 It’s not surprising a soon-to-be-married couple may think exploring a prenuptial agreement would be detrimental to their relationship. ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 6-Jan-2021

  My Best 2021 Divorce Advice!

  Divorce is traditionally a painful and dreaded process, but it doesn’t have to be as painful as you think! To help you with your 2021 divorce goals, I’m sharing my suggestions for protecting yourself, your family, and your finances. As a ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 4-Jan-2021

  Is It Time to Get Rid of Your Divorce Attorney?

  Why did you hire your divorce attorney? An impressive legal background? Great reviews? A family referral? Whatever the reason, if you are not happy with your divorce lawyer, and they’re not doing a great job for you, it’s time to let them ...

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• Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 1-Jan-2021

  Can a Postnuptial Agreement Save Your Marriage in 2021?

  With the New Year upon us many couples are re-examining their marriages and wondering how they can make their lives better, especially in these challenging times. Some couples consider a prenuptial agreement when they are getting married. But what if ...

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