Blog Posts in 2022 Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 30-Dec-2022 Did You Know an Alarming Number of Men Are Abused by Their Wives? As a psychologically trained divorce attorney/mediator for over 35 years, I have helped many women in abusive relationships, but I’ve also helped abused men too! Men abused by their wives are entitled to be believed, heard and helped. A man ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 28-Dec-2022 6 Tips to Reduce the Effects of Divorce on Your Children in the New Year! Divorce is very difficult and an especially confusing time for children. Couples often get caught up in their own anger, drama, and the messy divorce process, the desire for revenge and the division of property and finances. But, who is looking out ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 27-Dec-2022 6 Signs You Are Ready to Get Divorced! Not sure you want a divorce, but you’ve been thinking about it? Need some guidance on how to make the right decision? As a highly skilled, psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator, I can help you with that decision and provide you ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 23-Dec-2022 Is a Narcissist Ruining Your Life? You may ask yourself, “How did I get here? Why did I let this happen to me?” What was I thinking?” The answer is you were seduced by a narcissist’s charisma and cunning tactics. Don’t be too hard on yourself. The best ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 21-Dec-2022 Do I Need an Attorney if I Am Mediating My Divorce? As a psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator, I am uniquely skilled as both an attorney and a mediator. When I am wearing my mediator hat and guiding a couple in the mediation process I sometimes suggest spouses consult with an ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 19-Dec-2022 Are You Looking for a n Uncontested Divorce In New York? As a psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator for more than 35 years, I have guided many spouses through the divorce process. New York law allows couples to obtain an uncontested divorce when both parties agree to the divorce as well as ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 16-Dec-2022 Divorce Story As a divorce attorney and psychologically trained mediator, I hear all kinds of diverse divorce stories. I have decided to share some of these stories monthly with you. Naturally, I will change the names and some of the details to protect the privacy ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 14-Dec-2022 Managing Money in Your Divorce! Money for most of us is an emotionally charged topic. That’s why few of us, and few couples like to talk about it. When couples come to see me and are considering a divorce, money can actually be, yes, even more than infidelity, what is driving ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 12-Dec-2022 Are You Entitled to Rehabilitative Maintenance? As a psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator, it is my responsibility to inform clients of what they are entitled to when considering a divorce. Women, in particular, don’t realize they may be entitled to rehabilitative ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 9-Dec-2022 How Do You Co-Parent During the Holidays? Civilly and happily! Remembering your children and their happiness comes FIRST! As a seasoned, psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator, I have worked with many parents during and after divorce and I always remind parents that it’s ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 7-Dec-2022 Should I Get A Divorce Attorney When Divorcing A Narcissist? The answer is Yes! And preferably one that has psychological training. That won’t be easy to find. Lucky for you I am a psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator. Narcissism is a particular area of interest for me. I can spot a ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 5-Dec-2022 Considering Divorce While Caring for Your Infant? Here is a text I received 11 months ago: Dear Ms. Brenner, I am a first time mom and I am caring for my two month old son. I have decided I must get out of a hostile, abusive and very controlling marriage. I feel all alone. Can you help me? -Brandy- ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 2-Dec-2022 Did You Know Psychology Plays a Big Role in Divorce? With more than 35 years of experience as a psychologically trained divorce attorney and mediator, I heard the cries of many spouses and mastered techniques using psychology and sound legal strategy to get couples thoughtfully and successfully through ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 30-Nov-2022 5 Reasons Millennials Are Saying "I Do" to Prenuptial Agreements! For many savvy couples these days, especially millennials, careful planning to have the best possible financially protected future together is an important consideration. With more than 35 years of experience as a psychologically trained divorce ... Continue Reading Posted By Lois M. Brenner, Esq. 28-Nov-2022 Did You Get Served for Divorce Over the Thanksgiving Holiday? If you got served over the Thanksgiving weekend for a divorce, I can help! One of my clients was served for divorce last year over the Thanksgiving holiday. He couldn’t believe it. He called me on Saturday of the holiday weekend and told me he ... Continue Reading